We all know that the holidays can be a stressful time for the adults but it can also be a stressful time for the children. The daily routine that you finally got them used to changes and add in the extra family and other things and there you are. They are thown off their element. Angela Santomero, the creator of Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood (who is also a child development expert) shares these tips to make the most “Grr-ific” Holiday ever!
- Create Your Own Holiday Traditions – These extra special family rituals will make the season less stressful and more meaningful for everyone. Don’t worry about not sticking with traditions that you grew up with or trying to make everything “perfect.” Whether it’s going to a community show, baking or crafting paper lanterns together, each year offers the opportunity to strengthen your own family’s traditions and make wonderful and lasting new memories!
- Get Your Children Involved – Kids love to participate and to feel like they’re an important part of the holiday preparations, so have them help make place cards, work on decorations, put out gifts, etc. It’s a great way to help get them excited about the festivities – and one less thing for you to have to do, too!
- Prepare Kids for New Situations – Encountering unfamiliar situations can be stressful for young children, so, as Mom Tiger told Daniel, “When we do something new, let’s talk about what we’ll do.” Before going to a holiday party or gathering, let your child know what they’ll experience and who may be there. This will help them relax and feel prepared for what’s ahead!
- Teach Preschoolers to Be Thankful – Did your child get something that wasn’t exactly on their wish list? Let them know that, while it’s OK not to like every gift, it’s important to show their appreciation and remember that someone was thoughtful enough to do something nice for them! Encourage them to make thank you cards to further underscore the importance of being grateful.
- Reinforce the True Meaning of the Holidays – At holiday time, there’s so much pressure to buy, buy, buy. Parents can help head off disappointment by reminding kids that they may not get everything they want. This also provides the perfect opportunity for parents to emphasize the importance of giving to others during the holiday season – and that the most special “gift” of all is spending time together!
Thanks to Angela for sharing these tips! Make sure you tune in today for the new Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood holiday special – “Snowflake Day” – premiering on PBS KIDS, TODAY! with additional airings on Saturday, November 30, and Wednesday, December 11. Check your local listing for times.
